For many people, Christmas is
a time of sorrow. They don't have the extra money to buy presents for their
children, family, and friends. Many are saddened at Christmastime when they
think of their loved ones who will not be able to come home for various
reasons. It's a hard time to feel Christmas cheer if you're still reeling over
sickness or the recent loss of a loved one. Sometimes, until we heal, the full
holiday effect is just too much for our wounded spirits. If the whole
“Christmas experience” is overwhelming to you, try narrowing your celebration down
to simple worship of God for the gift of His Son.
True Christmas is all about Him instead of us. It need be nothing more. We make it far too complicated because we center its significance on people, not God. I hear people say all the time, “Christmas is all about the kids.” Well, it isn’t. It’s about Jesus. If it’s not, we’re setting ourselves up for cruel disappointment. Kids will grow up and leave home. Sometimes loved ones die. Divorce happens. A lost job will leave your pockets empty with nothing under the tree—if you can even afford the tree! When the people and things we love leave us or let us down, it crushes our love for the season; but when we focus on Him, however, as rightly we should, other things are small and less significant in comparison.
A pearl to string: Please don’t despair, for paring down your expectations and shifting your priorities can make this season a time of joy again. Your return to sincere worship will not only shut out the noise of the things that cause you pain, but your Heavenly Father actually hovers close to those who praise Him. Don’t take yourself into the places where you haven't healed. Take a break from that part of this season and just go back to Jesus. There's no sadness associated with His birth, and that's where our true celebration begins. Peace will permeate the hurt places in your life. With Jesus as the centerpiece of this holy day, you need never hate or dread Christmas again. All the other things which make it a dreadful time for some--shopping nightmares, stress, shortage of money, painful memories--these have nothing to do with Jesus. Stay focused on Him. The pure simplicity of His birth doesn't require anything more than a grateful heart; so whatever else tries to crowd out your Christmas spirit, push it away from the center of your life and just rest, like the baby in the manger, in the infinite goodness of a God who was willing to give His very best--for YOU.
“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you." (Isaiah 26:3)
Merry Christmas for real
"Above all, love each other deeply..." ~1 Peter 4:8
You are loved,
Lyndi
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